A Tramp Abroad (pt. 1)

IMG_0607Even in the grumpiest of grumpy moods I have found that my real, true passion, other than working with children, is traveling. This last week I have learned so much about myself and more about the world. From the wall in Berlin, to the canals of Venice, I have seen both the tragic horror and the joyful smiles of each and every city’s past. I felt the originality and significance in each and every square inch I covered. I fell into a love. A deep passionate love for every city I visited this last week. Despite the blistered feet, lack of sleep, and sunburnt shoulders, nothing has held me back from becoming profoundly enamored with every place I went.

We started in Berlin,Germany. We got off with little to no sleep, found the nearest Starbucks (that’s the American in us) and looked through the leaflets that we took from the train station. We all came to the decision with the small amount sleep we got the night before we should IMG_0637just take a tour bus that allowed us to get on and off throughout the day. We took this bus around the city for a good two hours while the rain steadily beat down on the roof. We saw everything and then decided to go back to the things we thought were the coolest. Checkpoint Charlie and The Wall. Every place we went had a lightness that was unexpected for such a dark history. We had our pictures taken with some mock guards at Checkpoint Charlie. The guards were beyond hilarious and most of our pictures are of us laughing. We then walked down to a part of The Wall called the topography of terror. This part of The Wall was next to the headquarters of the Gestapo. There was a heavier feeling around that building just because DSCN8922_editedwe were told from the bus tour that, although the building was only used between 1933 and 1945, there were many prisoners that were held and tortured here. We wanted to see it but we moved on pretty quickly. The last part of The Wall we saw was the part that was full of art. This was my favorite. Each section of The Wall was used as a place for artists to showcase their talent. Each and every piece of art was a different style. It really took a terrible piece of history and made it beautiful. We also walked around the city and visited the holocaust memorial and the gate.

DSCN8994_editedFrom Berlin we boarded a four hour train to Prague, Czech Republic. Prague is so different from most other cities I’ve been to. The city was so gothic and timeworn. That’s what I loved most about Prague. I was extremely tired and running off of hardly any sleep by the time we got to Prague. Most of what I do remember of the city comes from my pictures. I loved the city; I do know that. The famous Charles Bridge was so extremely beautiful. Each side has a tower that gives off the old medieval feel from when it was built in 1357-1402.Along each side of the bridge are statues that each are depictions of Jesus and people from the Bible. From the Bridge if you look toward Pražský Hrad (Prague Castle), in the west hills of the city, there is the giant St. Vitus Cathedral that is the most visible part of the grounds. DSCN9006_editedIt is so grand and beautiful that we found ourselves climbing a massive staircase just to get a look at the beautiful structure. Directly outside of the large estate was a quaint little vineyard that was the perfect place to take in the view of the city and snap a few shots. Prague is so historically sound and beautiful. That’s what made this city so wonderful. We spent most of our day walking the streets just taking in every building we passed. We also ran barefoot through the city in the rain! That was my favorite part of prague. My feet hurt and my friends sandals were slippery, so we took our sandals off and we ran to the train station in bare feet.

After trying to dry ourselves (and our clothes) off, we got on a train to Budapest,Hungary. After not sleeping for nearly three days I was ready to pass out, but the people around us decided to talk all night long. Thank god for iPods and slow music. We arrived in Budapest the next morning. It was so extremely hot while we were there, but that made the city even more stunning.DSCN9049_editedThe view from the edge of the Danube River displays massive buildings that are placed alongside of it. From parliament to the giant castle grounds the view also shows the many levels of the history the city has lived through. A liberty statue guards the top of the highest hilltop in Pest and bridges cross the river each with a different structure, each from a different era. Everywhere I looked there was something that caught my eye. From St. Stephen’s Basilica, with an enormous dome crowning it, to the intricate designs of the Dohány Street Synagogue down the street;DSCN9050_edited there was always something to see.The castle district was enormous and we happened upon a church that looked straight out of a Disney movie.With a colored tile roof a small black spire and a towering white spire. The church had such depth that you could stare at for hours. The church was surrounded by walls that showed an incredible view of Budapest.We took a night boat tour that showed us another stunning view of the city from a different perspective. We saw so many churches and buildings that were bigger than our cameras could even capture. We also visited a bar that was nothing like I have ever seen before. It was called Szimpla. I cannot even begin to describe it, so you will have to visit the website to see. I really didn’t want to leave Budapest. Two days just didn’t do the city justice. I will definitely be back to the wonderful city.

From Budapest we jetted on over to Vienna, Austria where we spent only one day. Vienna was also incredibly different than all the other cities. We toured the beautiful opera that had so much history and depth because of being partly diminished in WWII. The old and new meshed well together.The entirety of the inside of the building was equally beautiful from the new part to the old. With the limited time we had, we walked around the city to see as much as we could. We saw the Hofburg Palace (just the exterior) and the parliament building, and even though we only had eight hours in the city, we covered as much ground as we could. My favorite part of Vienna was a cathedral also called St. Stephen’s (like the basilica in Budapest) It was so grand and archaic, dating back to 1147. Vienna was more than I hoped for and I hope I have another opportunity to visit the city so that I can tell you all more about its beauty.

We spent the night in a train that nightDSCN9084_edited on our way to Venice, Italy for two days. Italy is by far my most favorite place to visit, so I might be biased when I say that Venice was the most wonderful city we visited. Aside from the 80% humidity and the 34°C (93°F) I really felt like I was in a truly historic city. Each canal and small street had a story to tell. We ran into many grand buildings. Like the Scuola Grande di San Marco, a convent built in 1293 and converted into an Austrian military hospital in 1819. It is now the civil hospital of Venice and is conjoined with the Basilica di San Giovanni e Paolo. We also visited a church with just as grand of an exterior as Scoula Grande di San Marco built in 1430. Although both are very grand and beautiful they are vastly different from each other. Another church we went to was Basilica di Santa Maria della Salute. Built in 1681, right at the end of the Grand Canal, the basilica was built and dedicated to Our Lady of Health because of a devastating outbreak of the plague.DSCN9093_edited Aside from the magnificent Basilicas and buildings we saw many of the islands surrounding Venice from the exterior of the city. There is an island just for the cemetery. And then there was Murano; A city most famous for glass making. Unfortunately when we ventured out there not only was it tremendously hot but it was also a Sunday. If you have ever been to Europe you will find most places close the whole city on Sunday, so we walked along the quiet empty canals of Murano for a bit before we decided to find our way back to the main city and walk around some more.

Our last stop was Milano Expo, Italy. The world’s fair.IMG_0628 We walked all day with our packs on our backs because there were no lockers to put them in. It was even hotter than Venice, but we were lucky because humidity was 10% less than Venice. Apart from the lack of lockers, the Expo was excellently set up. I was so happy to see how organized and well thought out it was. I do suppose they had, what I’m guessing, around 10 years to plan this fair. The theme is science and agriculture and they set it up to show how each country has to use science in order for its agriculture to thrive. I really enjoyed visiting every country, seeing how each country has a different way of providing food. The U.S. had a food truck area. Mexico served tacos and margaritas (my personal favorite, because of the lack of good Mexican in Switzerland) Russia showed the “degustation of its food and drinks”. All around it was really fun and I hope to make a trip back there in the next few weeks.

I really had a blast on my trip and I hope to make more trips in the future. As most of you know I will be moving to Sweden in a month and a half and I will probably make small trips here and there, but nothing big. I do need to save money and get myself ready to embark on another amazing year in another wonderful country. I am beyond excited to embark on this new adventure. I hope to write a little more often but please do bear with me I might have to skip a week or two.

Please feel free to comment below or email me at riley@rileycochran.me

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Big News!

I have a big announcement. I have been in contact with many families over the past week. They have all been pretty great but I found a family that is the family! This family is so kind. They have three very sweet children and they live just outside of Stockholm, Sweden in a small town called Sollentuna. I will be moving to Stockholm in September and living with this family for a year. On top of all of that I found out that with an au pair work permit I can go to university classes for free and all medical is covered because I become a resident! I am beyond excited to go on this new adventure.

A year ago I never thought I would fall in love with a continent as much as I have fallen in love with Europe. I hope that I can stay longer than just another year. I know that God has plans and I am not meant to come home yet. It’s hard to think about all the things I am missing out on back home, but I am so happy to share all my adventures with the people in my life!

I hope to have friends and family visit and explore this new country with me. Sweden is a lot richer in culture than Switzerland and that excites me. I can’t wait to learn a new language and a meet new family. I know that this family will make learning Swedish even easier because they speak it fluently. That was an issue I ran into with learning German. Not only did the family speak French but in Zürich they speak Swiss German which is far different from German. I hope to actually excel in Swedish and maybe even become fluent!!

Join me on my adventure here. If you have ever been to Sweden or any other Scandinavian country comment and tell me your favorite cities you’ve been to. I would love to hear from you. You can also email me at riley@rileycochran.me.

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Goodbye Zurich!!

 

Me and VictorAnton BirthdayI have missed writing oh so very much! I have been quite sick and I was in bed all of last week. I am glad to be better and writing again. I am also pleased to announce that I have finally made a big decision. I have fallen in love with Zürich and although I am extremely bummed that I cannot stay, I have been searching for a new family in a few other countries. I have been in contact with about 20 different families in Germany, Ireland, Australia and some other Northern European countries. This process seemed so tedious and complicated when I lived in the U.S. I am very fortunate to live close to most of the countries I have been looking in because I can go to that country to get my visa. Instead of taking up to three months I can go straight into the country and get the visa in about a week!

I really miss my family back home but, my heart still remains in my travels and the nomadic life I have recently discovered. I have to say the best part of being in Europe is that I can have my job and social life back home but for just a small price I can hop on a plane or a train and I can be in the country next door in sometimes less than 3 hrs. I can have my cake and eat it too. Europe is really such an amazing place. The culture and history that differs from country to country makes all my travels even more worthwhile.

Although I am really sad to leave Zürich, I am really excited to get to know a new culture. I cannot wait to live with another family that speaks another language and I am excited to get to know some new kiddos and watch them grow for a year! The family I have lived with for the past year could not have been a better family to start my adventure with. They are all so supportive and sweet and parting will be very emotional. I do know that I will have so much fun continuing on with this crazy adventure.

I am excited to learn a new city. I can tell you all the best coffee shops and the best clothing stores in Zürich and I am so excited to share those with the new Au-Pair for my old family. I am also excited to learn these things from the old Au-Pair of my next family. I know now that there are very few cities in Europe that aren’t easily accessible by train and that aren’t easy to navigate by tram or Metro. I cannot wait to write more about my next adventure!

 

Please feel free to comment below and tell me your favorite cities in Europe. I want to see them all!

 

Xoxo,

Riley

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The Best Hidden Spots in Italy

I am trying to plan my next trip! A friend and I decided that Italy would be fun. The Worlds Fair is in Milano right now so that is for sure on our list. I was wondering what else we could do in Italy, that not many foreigners would know about! Leave your comments below! So excited to hear what you all have to say.IMG_0204

How to be an Au-Pair and Love Doing it

Being an Au-Pair is hands down the best experience I have ever had. I really am lucky to have an amazing family to work for and amazing friends that have helped me through so much. It isn’t always easy, but here are some ways you can make the experience more positive than negative.

It All Comes Down to Who you Decide to Au-Pair For

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When you decide you want to become an Au-Pair, first things first, you have to lay out ALL of your expectations during the interview. If you want all weekends free, make sure the family is aware of that. Express all of your concerns in the interview. My biggest concern when interviewing with families was that the family I ended up living with wouldn’t just treat me like an employee, but as a member of the family. I am living and sharing meals with them after all. I told them flat out I don’t want to be the Help, I want to be considered another family member, just like I am adopting you as my second family. I was lucky enough to find people on the same page as me, but some people don’t realize that communicating these things during the interview is a huge deal.

Communication is Key

calendarWhen I first got here we all sat down and laid out the next 6 months to see what our daily routine would be like. I was able to see when I could have free time and when I had to work later. I am very fortunate to have a family that, not only is on the same page as me, but also communicates important details to me just as much as I communicate with them. If you feel like there have been overstepped boundaries or you are working too much, you should not be afraid to sit down with your host parents and have that conversation with them. Communicating with each other makes your job easier and your relationship with your host family stronger.

Look Into Going Through an Agency

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When you sign up with an agency not only does it make it easier to find a family, but it also makes the visa process and resident applications go much smoother. You are also completely protected by your agency. If anything goes wrong with the family or you feel homesick, the agency has you covered. If you have issues that you cannot resolve with your family, the agency is willing to sit down and help you and the family, even if that means relocation for you and a new Au-Pair for the family. They are really there to protect you and make sure you have a pleasant experience.

Language Barriers are Only Barriers if You Make Them Barriers

SKZD4996My favorite part of being an Au-Pair is getting to hear the kids’ English progress. They didn’t know a lick of English before I came here. Now they are able to understand me when I speak and respond to me in phrases and words that I actually understand. I also take a German course. I can hold a basic German conversation with most of the people in my course. If one of them doesn’t share a basic knowledge of English and I don’t share a basic knowledge of their language it gets to be very complicated. I am not able to further explain things in my mother tongue and neither are they. We often revert to childish hand gestures and trying to decypher other body language. The more I did this, the easier it became. We can now communicate a little more in German, but we still use a lot of pointing.

      Be Willing to Embrace the Family You Work for as Your Family

Victor BirthdayWhen you move into someone’s house and you eat dinner with them every night, they become more than just friends or acquaintances they become family. After about month and a few glasses of wine, you get to know them pretty well. My host parents have become like an older brother and sister to me. They complain to me about work and we talk some serious life issues. When I went through a tough time with some stuff back home, I was able to confide in my host mom. She was there to support me and really love me in the ways she knew how. You may not have as close of a relationship with your host family, but nonetheless they are still your family for at least a year. It is important to somewhat try and bond with them. It makes the experience more worthwhile.

Facebook Groups For Au-Pairs are a Great Way To Make Friends

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I met most of the friends I have here in Zürich on Facebook. Keep in mind a lot of Facebook groups are private and you have to either be invited or request to be a part of the group. These Au-Pairs are all going through the same things I am. Some have a harder workload at home or are just plain homesick. These Au-Pairs are here for the same reasons as I am and are often like minded. This makes it extremely easy to connect with them. I feel like I have this kind of fraternal bond.They are all there for me when I am having a hard time with the kids, or when I really miss home. My Au-Pair friends usually make amazing travel buddies as well!

      Making Friends From Home Will Help You When You Are Feeling  Homesick

Rachel And Me in MalagaMeeting new people can be super nerve-wracking, but when I met people from my home I felt an even closer bond to them than I did with other Au-Pairs. Some of my closest friends here in Zürich are American girls who are here for the same reasons I am. They both have a similar mindset as me and were raised in similar family dynamics. Having these girls by my side makes me less homesick and actually even more excited to continue my travels and exploration. They also miss the same things I miss from back home, like Nordstrom Rack, American T.V. shows, and here in Zürich we all miss good Mexican food. The girls from back home are also amazing travel companions!

  Explore and Welcome the Culture and Traditions of Your Host Family and the Country you are Living in

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Moving to another country can be a huge shock: A new language, odd streets to remember, learning to navigate by public transportation, but the culture can be amazing if you really immerse yourself in it. Swiss German lifestyle is very different than any other culture I have experienced. I didn’t know much about the Swiss, before I came, other than they made good chocolate and used to communicate Ricola style, with an Alpenhorn. Now that I live here I know that Switzerland has three main languages French, German, and Italian. I also know the Swiss are proud of their heritage and if you call them just German or French or Italian you will be corrected. They are Swiss and they are rightly proud of it. Culture is one of the most important parts of being an Au-Pair. Through culture you make some of the best memories and you sometimes even inherit silly habits that will stick with you when you go home.

 You Live in the Place You Work

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The hardest part about being an Au-Pair is you don’t get to pack up and go back to your apartment and the end of the day. You are already home. It is so hard to balance home life and work life as an Au-Pair, because there is no distinction between the two. I have found Starbucks,and local coffee shops to be my best friends. I end up sitting at home all day waiting for school to get done if I don’t go out. I work school holidays and I learned early on to take advantage of the zoos and parks around me. With two boys at home all day during holidays, I ended up going a little stir crazy. Take advantage of being out of the house.

  Be Prepared to Say Goodbye

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You have made many bonds with many people and if you’re not a citizen of the EU than your visa is up after one year. You will never be prepared to say goodbye to the amazing friends you have made or the amazing people that accepted you into their home as another member of the family. What you can do is keep in mind you are only there for a year. In that year you have bonded with people in ways that will last a life time. You have made friends that you will probably keep forever, and at the end of it all you will probably be booking your ticket back to Europe, just to see these people again. If you’re like me you will be finding another job in another country just so that you can stay close to those that you have become friends with and also to travel the world more because one year really just isn’t enough.

 

I have loved this experience so much that I am actually thinking of doing it all over again in another country. I love learning new cultures and watching children progress in language, school and life. I also enjoy the adventure and travel that comes along with being an Au-Pair. The friends I have made over the last 9 months have all been so loving and supportive. I am excited to make new friends and making new bonds!

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Confessions of a Self-Proclaimed Nomad

Every week I tell someone somewhere what my plans and goals are after I am done here in Zürich and every week my plans seem to change. I do not know what I want to do or where I want to end up, because truth is I want to end up everywhere and do EVERYTHING. I want to see more things and do more things and the more I think about it, working and living  in a new country every year is, in my mind the best way to spend my early adulthood. I want to work and travel until I am so tired that I decide to mosey on home and make a life for myself there, if I find a place to truly call home (which right now is where my family is).

 

Paris, France October 2014
Paris, France October 2014

I know so many people that are graduating Uni and getting degrees, that may or may not be useful and, even though I would love to go to school and get a degree, I know that in the long run I won’t really use the degree to its full potential. Instead, I will probably continue on with my nomadic life and maybe return to school after I have kids and they are grown up and out of the house. Almost every person I graduated high school with went on to try and accomplish something bigger and better through college that can provide what they need. I consider the Earth my giant classroom.

 

Innsbruck, Austria December 2014
Innsbruck, Austria December 2014

Each step of the way I am learning something new, not only about the culture and environment of the countries I visit, but also myself. I have learned to fly by the seat of my pants, survive off of $50 for 10 days and I have also learned that I am absolutely and passionately in love with everything to do with having a nomadic life. There is something amazing about being alone and on my own. Traveling alone has allowed me to be completely 100% in my own head. I was so frightened of being alone when I first got here and now that I have learned the art of emotional writing and stress management, I cannot wait for the moment I sit down on that train or in that plane and just sit and contemplate. My ideas and wants and dreams float through my mind and I am usually writing them down after a certain point, making list, after list, after list.

 

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Malaga, Spain February 2015

From the first time I set foot on an airplane, I realized, that if I did nothing but travel for the rest of my life, I would be the happiest person on Earth. At first I figured that it was just a pipe dream and that it would never happen, but that was when money meant everything. Back then, my frame of mind was all about picking a career that would make me the most money. I never stopped to think about what I could do to make myself happy. I know now that I have found my calling and passion. I have to live in the here and now while I am young. I can’t worry about what everyone else is doing or thinking.

 

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Lucerne, Switzerland February 2015

I was so proud of myself when I finally made my dreams of coming to Europe happen. I really had no idea what I wanted to do. I thought that I would just take a year to be Au-Pair and travel and after that year I would go home maybe go to school. With this, I would be happy and content. The thought of going back to Seattle makes me want to shed tears of joy and angst. I know that seeing my family would make me happy, but now that I have experienced the world a little more, I feel that traveling is just as much of a family member as my sister is. I know that if I were to go back home and have a normal everyday job I would be so completely empty and bored. I would not know what to do with myself.

 

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Lugano, Switzerland April 2015

That’s why I have decided to take another year here in Europe and just live my life and make myself happy! I am currently looking all over for a job. Germany has a lot of beautiful cities, but tomorrow I know Ireland will be just as appealing. My season here in Switzerland is almost up and I feel that in my heart. It is both sad and happy. I have made so many friends and I have had so many fun experiences. I wish I could go back and do it all over again. That’s why I am finding a new country to do it all over again in. I want to make new friends, keep the old, share my joys and experiences with them and, who knows, I might even be sharing from another continent next year … but let’s not get too ahead of ourselves.

 

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